London - The Review

On January 10, 2004, Jill and I boxed up all of our stuff, packed our suitcases as full as we could get them, and got on a plane heading to London. We had no place to live and we had only visited London once before (for less than 12 hours). We spent the next three years living in a one bedroom 400 square foot flat with a tiny refrigerator, a small washer/dryer that only held a day’s worth of clothes and took four hours to dry, a bathtub with a handheld shower head (no full shower), no air conditioner or dishwasher, and we had the best three years of our entire lives. We miss it already!

Thanks
First, we want to thank God for such an incredible opportunity He has given us. We had a lot of fun, but we were blessed in so many more ways. We made some of the best memories of our lives, some incredible new life-long friends, everyone back home was kept safe and healthy, and so much more. This experience was much greater than we can put into words, and we praise the Lord for giving us this experience in our lives.

Thank you to our families who have been so supportive this entire time. You have all helped us in so many more ways than you’ll ever know. From talking with us as often as we want to keeping us up to date on the local news to being so interested in everything we do to picking us up and taking us to the airport so many times. Thank you for it all – we love you very much!

We also want to thank all of those who help us take care of Bimmer and Levi - our parents, Mendy, Bart & Kerry, Amy & Clarke, and Mavis. Thanks to all of our friends who kept in touch with us during these years – we know the time zones made it difficult, and it really meant a lot to us to hear from you. Steve, thank you for trusting me with this job opportunity and taking care of Jill and me all the way through the end. Scott and the rest of Highwinds – thank you all for everything you did to make this smooth for us. Sam – thank you for talking to us before we moved and for helping us get our feet on the ground when we arrived. ntl – thank you for welcoming me and including me in your activities. Ellsworths - thank you for all of the care packages that you sent us. Jon – thank you for being an easy landlord to work with. All family/friends – thank you for all of your prayers, love, and support. This experience would not have been possible without each and every one of you – thank you all!

And I’d like to thank my wife. How she put up with me in that small flat for three years I’ll never know. But she did so much more than be a wife for me – she has been my best friend and companion. Not only did she take care of our place (we didn’t have a dishwasher, remember) and cook so many dinners for me, but she researched and planned 99% of our trips – and let me tell you, that’s no easy task. Jill has taken me all over Europe and she hit every detail perfectly. Her detailed planning made sure that we never missed anything. Thank you Jill for making this experience so incredible! I love you so much!

Visitors
We’d also like to thank all of those who came to visit us – we shared such great times with you, made unforgettable memories, and we appreciate you coming to see us:
Our parents (more than once)
My sisters and brother-in-laws
David/Janet
Mike
Bart/Kerry
Kathleen
Scott and Kim
Amy and Clarke
Steve, Chance, and Dave

Richmond
We spent our time living in the southwest corner of London in a place called Richmond (part of Surrey). We are very fortunate to have ended up here as we believe it is one of the best places to live in the entire London area. Richmond has a lot to offer – the largest Royal Park in London; the Thames River with great riverside pubs, restaurants, and places to hang out; a large garden overlooking the Thames; a great High Street full of nice shops and restaurants, and a tube/train station that was in a great location getting to both Central London and my offices. Richmond is near and dear to our hearts, and we will always miss living there! There were always lots of cats hanging around too (Ginger, we miss you too!)

London
We could talk about London for months – it’s truly an incredible place. Of course it’s a very beautiful city with lots of great history, but it’s much more than that. We never got bored just walking around and soaking it up – it was so fun just to do that. There is also lots of shopping (Jill), good food, cool markets, great sights to see (we were still sight-seeing during our last week there), and the list goes on. We loved jumping on a tube or train and enjoying everything that this city has to offer.

Trips throughout Europe
Well, after 100 flights we sure have covered lots of ground. We have pretty much been to all of Western Europe and some countries more than once (especially Jill as she often took her mom and dad to countries that she had already been to). Here’s the final list of the 21 countries that we visited over the last few years:

 

England:
London
Stonehenge
Longleat
Bath
Cornwall
Windsor
Brighton
Liverpool
Manchester
Cambridge
Portsmouth
South Hampton
Bournemouth
Oxford
Stratford upon Avon
Cotswolds
Canterbury

Wales:
Cardiff

France:
Paris
Normandy
French Riviera
Chimonix/Mont Blonc

 

Italy:
Venice
Milan
Florence
Pisa
Rome
Pompeii
Sorrento
Positano
Isle of Capri
Tuscany
Lake Como

Monoco

Vatican City

Scotland:
Edinburgh
Highlands
St. Andrews

Belgium:
Brussels
Bruges

Ireland:
Dublin
Cliffs of Moher

Germany:
Berlin
Frankfurt
Munich
Bavaria

Netherlands:
Amsterdam

Sweden:
Stockholm
Jukkasjarvi

Denmark:
Copenhagen

Spain:
Barcelona

Poland:
Krakow

Hungary:
Budapest

Austria:
Vienna

Czech Republic:
Prague

Switzerland:
Leysin
Geneva
Murren
Bern

Greece:
Athens
Mykonos

Portugal:
Lisbon

We loved every single place we visited. It’s amazing how different the countries and cultures are even though they are all so close together. We ended with trips to Bruges, Belgium and Lisbon, Portugal. These were at the bottom of our list of places to visit, but the reality is that they were just as good as the ones at the top. If we didn’t live in London, we would never have seen these places – and they are so worth going to. That’s the beauty of living in London – we were able to go to places like this that we normally would have missed.

Favorites
So what were our favorites? Well, London is our favorite – hands down. Paris has a lot to offer too, and we both agree that it’s up there too. But as I said, everything is so different it’s really hard to say otherwise. It’s so hard to compare places since they are all so unique and have their own special things to offer. But if we HAD to choose, here is what each of us would say:

Jill:
French Riviera
Venice, Italy
Mykonos, Greece
Sweden (Ice Hotel)
Switzerland (skiing)

Brad:
Venice, Italy
Switzerland (skiing, riding trains through the mountains, and the views from the top)
Ice Hotel
Tuscany – Italy
Amalfi Coast - Italy

As we look at this list, we think of all of the other places we’ve been and that’s why it’s so hard to make a “list”. Everything else is like a tie for number six, and the margin between five and six is so close.

Miss/Don’t Miss
So now that we’re back, what will we miss the most? What will we NOT miss? Here are two lists that we have put together to answer these questions:

Miss:
Richmond/London – see above
Traveling
Walking around (and seeing all of the cats)
Public transportation (so nice not to have to worry about traffic)
European stores (Jill says they have different styles – something like that)
Pubs
Good beers (my favorites are Hoegaarden, Kronenbourg, Carling and Carlsberg)
Restaurants (especially Relais de l' Entrecote, Nando’s, and the Taste of Raj)
Quaint villages
Culture
Weather - only light rain instead of thunderstorms and tornados
Long days (at its peak, the sun is up from 4:30am until 10:00pm)
Shower (we only had the handheld thing)
One faucet (we had one for hot and one for cold – difficult to get “warm” water that way)
Big TV – we lived off of a 13-inch the entire time
Church, but we like Duke Street in Richmond too
Chip/pin when using credit cards - no signature required
Tesco chocolate chip muffins - my morning breakfast
Sunday Roasts – delicious!
Going to plays/concerts – we hit 20 while we were there
Rugby/Soccer – surprisingly, we really enjoy these sports (I did NOT say that we enjoy them better than football!)

Don't miss:
Stores closing early
Customer service - God bless America!
Carrying groceries home
Hard to play golf – no car to carry my clubs
Not having a car (sometimes)
High prices and expensive exchange rate
Good steaks – we only found a couple
Lack of ice – and when you ask for it, you get three cubes
Cars coming down the wrong side of the road – I still look both ways when crossing the street and I can’t tell you how many times I went to the wrong door to get in cars
GMT – tough to sync up with family/friends while 6 hours ahead
Lack of football – this was painful (at least we could listen to the Bama games in the middle of the night)
Not having a big house – we were cozy in our flat
Not having a dishwasher
Small washer/dryer
Shopping – if you see something you like, you better get it now or it's gone
No paper towels – too many automatic hand dryers
All the mess of being in a different country - bank accts, insurance, etc.
Taking 17 hrs to get home – no kidding, it took us 17 hours door to door
Not having an air conditioner – although it was only tough for a couple of weeks during the summers
Carrying luggage on tubes/trains, up/down stairs
Free refills – only at Nando’s
Iced tea
Jetlag
Commute

Myths
Before we moved, we heard a lot about three things that turned out to be very untrue:

1. It rains so much that it’s depressing
It is true that it rains a lot, but it’s almost always just a light sprinkle that doesn’t last very long. It’s so light that you can walk around in it and be comfortable. We only saw lightening three or four times the entire time we were there. We actually prefer London rain to Alabama rain.

2. The food is bad
Maybe people were talking about the British cuisine only. We are not fans of their shepherd pies and such, but they have some outstanding roasts and lamb. Not only that, but there is such a variety throughout London, you can find just about anything. We’ve definitely missed the food since we left.

3. The beer is served hot
I think this may have been the case many years ago, but it’s very different from that now. Not only is the beer cold, several beers are advertised as “extra cold”.

Friends
We sure did meet some amazing people while we were there – lifelong friends - not only our British friends, but our American friends living abroad as well. We have so many wonderful memories with all of you, and we thank you for everything. We look forward to seeing you all again – we’re only a flight away! Please keep in touch and know that you are always welcome to stay with us any time. Take care of yourselves!

Closing
When Jill and I first moved to London, we really thought we’d move back after one year. We loved it so much we stayed for three – and that really speaks volumes. We always said that when we had to move back there would always be many more places we would have wanted to visit. But the reality is that we’d say that no matter how long we lived there. Europe is a wonderful place, and there is so much to do and see there. Who knows, we may move back to London again in the future – you never know.

Well, we’re off to the Big Apple now – New York City. We are very excited and hope to see lots of you come and visit. Our door is wide open. We are closing this chapter in our lives, but we are opening a new one. Until the first NYC update, take care and God bless. We love and miss you all!